Falling in
love for the first time can happen at any age. Whether it is at age 12 or 27,
you will eventually fall and love, and if that ends it will feel like you just
dropped your triple layered ice cream cone on the sidewalk. My first love, Nick Jonas, was my everything.
(Go ahead laugh away.. but it was real to me) I would run home from school and
watch any YouTube video that mentioned his name. I listened to his songs until
my dad begged me to change the CD or he would pull his hair out. He obviously
didn’t support out love. Then one day I got on the internet and posted all over
my home page was Nelena (Nick Jonas and Selena Gomez). I was crushed; he was
supposed to be with me. However, he liked the Wizards of Waverly Place star
more. Whether your first love was a celebrity or an actual boyfriend, getting
over them is never easy, but chin up ladies! I have 5 steps that are very
successful in getting over a first love.
1.
Invite
your girlfriends over and have a “Burn my ex’s photos party” leave no evidence
of the love you shared. Seeing his face all over your walls will not make it
any easier to get over him.
2.
Stay
away from beige eating. I know, I know. “But the triple chocolate chip brownies
help ease the pain!” However gaining 20 pounds will only make your more
depressed.
3.
BACK
AWAY FROM THE NICHOLAS SPARKS MOVIES!! He is a genius at writing books, and one
of my all-time favorite authors, but watching a love story when you feel so
lonely is just asking for trouble.
4.
Do
NOT text/call your ex for ANY reason. Don’t open any doors to let him back in
your life. You need closure.
5.
If
you go to school with your ex, the day after you break up, no matter how bad
you want to wear sweatpants and no make-up.. You can’t. The number one way of
getting revenge without looking crazy is to look fabulous. You get up and you
curl your hair, go to school and laugh it up with your friends. He will be
miserable, and you will feel better about yourself.
With Love,
Darcy.
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